Living On The Edge Pakistan by Waqar Zaka

Well, this is my first post so here goes:

I do not really understand the mission behind the show Xposed. The name of the show suggests something 'big' but so far the first four episodes have only resulted in Waqar Zaka turning in to some sort of 'aunt agony'.

Sure thousands of guys and girls in Karachi and all over Pakistan have relationship problems and what not, but is that really something to base an entire television show on? These are petty matters, and trying to solve them is like jumping in a puddle of dirt, which results in the dirt being splashed over the one who jumped in and also the by-standers. But the dirt remains.

Waqar's suggestion towards the end of Episode Four that should universities, colleges and institutes make some sort of 'laws' to stop guys & girls from interacting with each other outside of purely academic activities is quite ridiculous. Isn't this the sort of 'moral policing' that our country is fighting the Taliban for in the North-West? Don't we have enough Mullahs in Pakistan to tell us 'how' to live our lives according to a plethora of interpretations of faith? I, for one, do not need another moral guide.

Lastly, Waqar and his team should concentrate on much bigger issues such as Xposing KESC for its incompetence or Maulana Sami-ul-Haq for preaching Taliban ideology openly in his madrassa & brainwashing small children. These are issues that will strike all Pakistanis as 'personal' because they effect our every day lives & have shaped our society in distorted ways. Its about time to hunt the 'big fish' and create a stir instead of putting vulnerable avg. Karachiites at risk by showing their faces on television when our society doesn't yet understand the meaning of 'tolerance'.

P.S: I remember the initial Xposed where Waqar exposed corruption in the Karachi Building Authority – alas! those were the days of some serious Xposure!

Well, problems of kids – especially young girls and guys – is nothing new & it doesn't happen in Pakistan only. I am not trying to take credit away from Waqar and yourself Mr Mansoor. You have taken a courageous step but at the same type we have to think about how much of that step is in the right direction. Sure, you can continue exposing kids on television but then you should call the show 'Aunt Agony'.

I take the meaning of Xposed to be something 'big'. Ofcourse there are countless problems in Karachi and wider Pakistan which the government itself cannot tackle. But this is exactly where civil society comes in; which is me, you, Waqar and ordinary Pakistanis. Lets not forget, one voice can make a difference.

Xposing big fish – like what Waqar did at Karachi Building Authority – will make more and more Pakistanis watch your show. While at the same time, moving away from Xposing young kids' faces on television, you will not be putting them at risk. Lets face it, we have very few law-abiding individuals in Pakistan.

ur right Sid And Thanks 4 liking our Work but its only Waqar Bahi Who Make This Kind of Shows dont u see the Xpose Session one Where Waqar Bahi Put his Own Self on Danger jab Moblie Phone cheena gaya tha I hope u see that Show 

well Xpose is REally Big but i think we HAve our own limits Do u think it is possible to go and visit jail with cameras And They easliy do allow us to get Xpose Them 

issues are so many Around us INSHALLAH as waqar bahi said we cant Change or fight Against The system

we know The limits And YEs xpose is not just 4 Xposing the Kids Bro

well can u give comments on the current Xpose Issue And What Do u think the BEst Way To slove the Problem

Post edited 11:46 pm – July 8, 2009 by Sid

Ok I shall get back to the point, leaving my idealistic thought processes aside.

On the current issue, I believe someone on a Live call said it well, that all three: the girl, the guy and the older sister should be brought face-to-face and let them air their dirty laundry. Let them bitch & curse each other. Waqar and Xpose team can only 'facilitate' the process of compromise and reconciliation. You cannot tell them what to do because then, somewhere down the line, it would come back to haunt you.

And lets face it, the audience doesn't really know what the guy did with the girl physically since on the show it was censored when the guy told Waqar, sitting inside that car.

Lets be open about it, if the girl and the guy had sex, then they should be persuaded to get married. If they didnt have sex, the girl should not have any problem finding a decent, educated, non-perverted guy as her future husband & in this case, the girl and the guy should go their seperate ways.

Salamz….
 
App larke ko expose kareen but sirf us ki family k samne coz agar us larke ki sisters honge tou im sure koi aunty b inti himat nai kareen ge k un larkiyoon ki shadi apne betay se kar deen though iss mai un ka koi kasoor nai hai but they have to pay for there brother sin
 
aur larki k lay i'll advice k usay koi aur acha larka mil jae ga jo inta kuch hone k baad larki ko accept nai kar raha us se umeed rakha bekar hai .

They should be away and about the suggestion , that all of these three should talk face to face agar aisay problem solve hoti tou do you think k woh on air Waqar se help layte ya on air ane ki himat karte . I appreaite her sister that she took a step to come in fornt of all for justices rather than believing  jo howa so howa ……………….

kaisi ki izat koi drama nai hoti hai ghalti sab ki hai but it doesn't mean k hum blame karte rahen.

 
Allah hafiz
 
Pakistani Nation

and jahan tukk larki ki behn ki bat hai……jub us larki ki itni frankness hai apni bari behn k saath k use is k affair k baare main pata hai…….then it means k they are together in this plan……ye akser larkion ki phsychology hotii hai……..

all three should b exposed i said this before n im saying it again ..

   this older sis should b the 1st one to b xposed.

inka sath rehna tou namumkin baat hai yeh tou i think bachha bhi bata sakta hai.

 coming str8 to the point jitni ghalti larke ki hai untni larki ki bhi hai. aisa nahi hai ke kisi aik ne enjoy kia hai lol. . pardon me buh this is wat it is !!!  i know this is a serious matter .

    1,2,3 larka , larki , larki ki behen call them on a live show for discussion n after that no matter wat it is , all three should b xposed . ghalti dono ki hai.

Asalam u alekum

Mere khayal se to b very frank agar larke ne larki k sath in 2 salon mein sex nhi kia to yeh larka us larki se shadi ki niyiet rakhta hoga per larki ki galti ya soch ko dekh kar larke ka mind change hogaya aur is ne is larki ko chor dia.Q k aj kal k larke to 2-3 months k relation mein hi sex karlete hain larkion k sath.

i think waqar bhai ko larki aur uski behen ko xposed karna chayie per on air nhi us ghar walon k samne na sirf is larke k sath affair balke us larke se sabot le kar us k net ya kahin aur jitne affair hain sab ko xposed karna chayie.

to b very frank mujhe larki ki behen ki batien aur us ka attitude dekh kar lagta hai k larki aur us ki behen sochi samjhi planing se is larke se revenge le rahin hain.Q k larki ki daring behen ko malum hai k is masle mein ziada support un ko hi mile gi larke per koi belive nhi karega.jis tarhan wo larke k liye bol rahi thi jo voice sensor kardi gai.i think k wo larki larke ko galian dea rahi thi tu aisi larki k bare mein to sab hi jante hain.Aur kia larki ne aik bar bhi larki ki daring behen ne ye kam karne ki koshish nhi ki jo waqar bhai ne kia jo k is prob ka practical solution tha.

waqar bhai se guzarish hai k wo face blind kardete hain per voice sensor na kia karien take unki pori bat logon ko pata chale jo xposed ka maqsad bhi hai.larke ne larki k sath aisa kia kia kisi ko nhi malum jis se us ki shadi nhi hosakti to log kia discuss karienge aur kis base per.

aur xposed ki prob aik hi epi mein solve hosakti hai agar waqar bhai prog aur prob k bare mein har break per jane se phele aur ane k bad, aur har clip dekahane se phele aur bad mein prog ya problem ko suru se defined na karien to q k iski zarorat nhi hoti.agar time pora karne ki bat hai to alag bat hai.LOL